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Your Existing Situation
Feels obstructed in his desires and prevented from obtaining the things he regards as essential.
Yeah... a job with income would be nice.
Your Stress Sources
Unfulfilled expectations have led to uncertainly and an apprehensive watchfulness. Badly needs to feel secure and protected against further disappointment, being passed over, or losing standing and prestige. Doubtful that things will be any better in the future, but inclined nevertheless to make exaggerated demands or reject compromise.
Yeah, having spent nearly two years trying to get work and nothing appearing yet, yes, discouraged. Don't think the last thing about exaggerated demands or rejecting compromise holds water. I'd certainly LIKE to be picky, but I have no choice.
Your Restrained Characteristics
Feels that he cannot do much about his existing problems and difficulties and that he must make the best of things as they are. Able to achieve satisfaction through sexual activity.
Your Desired Objective
Longs for tenderness and for a sensitivity of feeling into which he can blend. Responsive to anything esthetic and tasteful.
I have that, for the most part.
Your Actual Problem
Disappointment at the non-fulfillment of his hopes and the fear that to formulate fresh goals will only lead to further setbacks have resulted in considerable anxiety. He is trying to escape from this into a peaceful and harmonious relationship, protecting him from dissatisfaction and lack of appreciation.
Well, yeah, that's kind of true, discouragement has set in rather deep. I'm still working on that side of things. For instance, setting goals...
Your Actual Problem #2
Needs to achieve a stable and peaceful condition, enabling him to free himself of the worry that he may be prevented from achieving all the things he wants.
Yeah, well, and there's the rub. Although, frankly, winning a big lottery would be a nice thing as well.